What to do when your two best friends are dating

11-Feb-2018 17:58

They dated earlier this year, I told them it made me super uncomfortable, and they ended up breaking up.

Sometimes, new couples don’t realize how alienating they’re being. Talking to them should hopefully clear some things up, but – and this is a bummer – you should know that some things .

Two of my best friends have started dating each other and although I’m happy for them, I’m starting to feel like a third wheel whenever we hang out.

It’s so weird for me to see them together romantically because we’ve always been good friends.

I also feel like I’m going to lose my two best friends… Sometimes I feel like there is no resolution for this. You have two options here: you can voice your concerns to your friends or you can try to move on and stop hanging out with them.

I’d like to think that the second choice isn’t an option, since I’m assuming you don’t want to lose either of your friends. If they are really your best friends, they’ll hear you out and do what they can to keep your friendship intact.This is not something you should instigate or force to happen. What you can do as a friend when this happens eventually is to be there to support the both of them through the heartbreak of the failed relationship the best you can.